What happens when we forgive others? The pain that others cause can be real and great. But the anguish of living with bitterness and a lack of forgiveness can be infinitely more harmful, poisoning our very souls. When we forgive others, we are not declaring that what they did was okay. Rather, we are releasing the transgression to God, allowing Him to take over. When we show mercy instead of revenge, not blaming or trying to get even with the other person, God intervenes. Forgiveness also releases the pain’s hold on us. As today’s verse states, we are encouraged to forgive and love one another, trusting that God is taking care of the situation. Proverbs 20:22 (MSG) says, “Don’t ever say, ‘I’ll get you for that!’ Wait for God; he’ll settle the score.” God’s wrath is escapable only through Christ’s redemptive work on the Cross. When we extend grace to others, we are following the example that Jesus set, and we are fulfilling His promise to us: “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you” (Matthew 6:14 NIV).